Recently I met a man from an online dating site who turned out to be quite a charmer.
There were no real outward signs of his soon-to-be disturbing behavior. Total opposite he appeared rather nice.
A little checking on social media sites and others’ approval via viewing him and his family picture posts left me feeling comfortable to date him.
Unknown and totally caught off-guard was three dates in the executive churchgoer’s personality became that of a ‘freakazoid’ following a nice dinner together.
Where and exactly when did this man’s smiles and interesting, intellectual conversation changeover to a total different personality is a complete puzzle to me.
The whole experience managed to sour my thoughts on those who claim to be devout Catholics or Christians.
I can’t emphasize enough the importance of a complete background check on any man entering your life who knows none of your family, friends nor acquaintances.
Ladies, don’t let appearances fool you with any new romantic interest. Don’t let your guard down. Why? It could have cost me my life.
The man whose vocabulary words this blogger had to utilize a dictionary to define wasn’t looking for a serious relationship online rather a cover-up for a hookup.
I am thankful to God I walked away unscathed. The outcome of a third date with this man could have become more gruesome.
This I admit has been a most valuable lesson with the issue of trust. A decent, respectable woman has no idea the hidden agenda of today’s world’s charmer nor the potential possible harm he could inflict upon her once alone.
Realization now for the woman whose heart you attempted to hurt via your actions is a newfound built wall ‘lack of trust’, a barrier to some really decent man.
You, the charmer, I truly believe will get back 10X thru Karma compensation for your actions.
Yesterday began a new month of my favorite season, autumn. I intend to keep it filled with beautiful people, positive thoughts and happy moments.
This woman who demands respect and love has no place amidst the world of the ignorant man a.k.a. ‘THE LOSER’.