Tired of Fakes

Looking new love connection
Down-to-earth good direction

Timing, intangible hex entity
Onboard prior faceless flex enemy

Revelation personal inopportune
Expectations harmonious fail bloom

Unknowns masqueraded behind PCs peep
Unfortunate assortment pics utmost creeps

Shame man seem nice 'til conversational screwup
Monogamous reluctant mere in search FWBs hookup 

Lusting after demoiselle promiscuous fruitcake
Wrong profile clicked on - wise woman no flake

Take self plus supply magical blue thrill pills
Bypass door no interest turn shades blue pastel

Fashionista private agency idea near future hire
Expensive decision background checked magnifiers.

© 2018 June Quintin

The Contemptible Fella

Rearview mirror resemblance vulture
Upshot origin badass behavioral culture

Parallelism buzzard high perch tree out of sight
Male sits facing computer screen awaiting exploit

Combination old pics and text bundled pack lies
Misrepresentations self seek vulnerable preys, sigh

Pretext long term relationship hopeful attracts
Genuine women, money plus multitude self-satisfacts 

Clever conception plus facetious expressions 
Relax scorned women conceal deep-seated aggressions

Inevitable future bait and switch reciprocate
Drama free serendipity twist of fate anticipate.

© 2018 June Quintin







  

Reflection

Success rate older secure date
Lower unless persona fake create

Be yourself proclaim truth no lies
Traffic stream continuously subside

Mirror image water reflection
Older woman fancy intellect attention

Fearful world's imminent dangers
Imperative wary unknown strangers

Process selectiveness grown weary
Misrepresentations torrid leary

Years avoidance alcoholic drinks
Consent hookup negative thanks

Personal nature good qualities
Hallmark equality definite honesty

Regardless multitude label players
Continuance be Ms. generic surveyor

Faithful eventually timing right
Hopeless romantic blessed date night.

© 2018 June Quintin

A Sprinkle of Balderdash

Man appear perfect gentleman
Dates 1,2,3 good mannerisms

Vulnerable fish available catch
Oops! True traits begin mix-match

Warning women background wise
Handsome man be snake in disguise

Prior succumb thoughts e-erlast love
Behavioral patterns important note thereof

Once a liar, always a liar
Once a cheater, always a cheater

Better alone or true friendships world see
Avoid heartache, set the dastardly rat free!

© 2018 June QuintinA Sprinkle of Balderdash

Important To Be Patient

Feeling downhearted characteristics Cinderella
Arrival residence prior midnight void special fella

New age dating process both tiresome 'n problematic
Actual commitment suggest phobia phone sudden static

Surrounded painted walls familiar closed in feelings
Busyness throughout days await cell's notation rings

Certain negative hot pursuit one's hard-earned assets
Preference quality time shared available preset tactics

Doubtful be genuine unique today's world actual works
Opposite sex appears via own description bit berserk

Listen stories prospective potential partners tell
Dishonesty gut instinct grave importance heed call

Smoke or drink excess frown deal breakers first
Conversation topics morbid or ailments auto-burst

Liar, liar pants on fire no doubt leave true blue
Lie me once not about dumb enough again believe you

Dismiss consideration e'er acceptance delusional
Remain single status actual versus settle bamboozle

Steadfast self-reliant woman prevail await knight
Chivalrous still going strong rescuer be Mr. Right. 

© 2018 June Quintin

Dating Epiphany

Thoughts per day
Range 50 to 70K

Mathematical equation
Constant mind invasion

Topic of despair
Catastrophic affair

Sudden thoughts
Reason distraught

Dating guidelines
Interesting finds

Red flags pop
Conversational flops

Intuitive perception
Nit-pickity selection

Two strangers together
Possible couple forever

Thinkin' back
Third date hacked

Understand refuse
Pre-bamboozle confuse

Busyness boss
Relationship loss

Portrayal post design
Sudden irksome remind

Time precious - move on
Chase feelings forlorn 

Back to window shop tactics
Follow face-to-face contacts

Resume loving partner search
Three dates maximum research.

© 2018 June Quintin

Nothing Hurts Quite Like Love

Genuine persona
Wallflower loner

Honesty portray
Catfish's prey

Profile contents read
Disappointment breed

Online date profile dispensaries
Similarity newspapers' obituaries

Feelings susceptible
Tides unpredictable

Categorize via debate
Relationship type validate

Framework needs 'n desires
Welcome mat possible liars 

Coffee dates or brunch
Possible meet o'er lunch

Assess authenticity
Quality love stability

Curious interaction scope
Positive validation hope

Potential commitment prone
Chosen comfort friend zone

Foretell love emotional level
Process fate 'n free will excel

Transitory, karmic or compromise
Three types of love in disguise

Couple's discovery soulful expression
Combo chemistry 'n best friends connection. 

© 2018 June Quintin 









 

Beware of the Charmer

Recently I met a man from an online dating site who turned out to be quite a charmer.

There were no real outward signs of his soon-to-be disturbing behavior. Total opposite he appeared rather nice.

A little checking on social media sites and others’ approval via viewing him and his family picture posts left me feeling comfortable to date him.

Unknown and totally caught off-guard was three dates in the executive churchgoer’s personality became that of a ‘freakazoid’ following a nice dinner together.

Where and exactly when did this man’s smiles and interesting, intellectual conversation changeover to a total different personality is a complete puzzle to me.

The whole experience managed to sour my thoughts on those who claim to be devout Catholics or Christians.

I can’t emphasize enough the importance of a complete background check on any man entering your life who knows none of your family, friends nor acquaintances.

Ladies, don’t let appearances fool you with any new romantic interest. Don’t let your guard down. Why? It could have cost me my life.

The man whose vocabulary words this blogger had to utilize a dictionary to define wasn’t looking for a serious relationship online rather a cover-up for a hookup.

I am thankful to God I walked away unscathed. The outcome of a third date with this man could have become more gruesome.

This I admit has been a most valuable lesson with the issue of trust. A decent, respectable woman has no idea the hidden agenda of today’s world’s charmer nor the potential possible harm he could inflict upon her once alone.

Realization now for the woman whose heart you attempted to hurt via your actions is a newfound built wall ‘lack of trust’, a barrier to some really decent man.

You, the charmer, I truly believe will get back 10X thru Karma compensation for your actions.

Yesterday began a new month of my favorite season, autumn. I intend to keep it filled with beautiful people, positive thoughts and happy moments.

This woman who demands respect and love has no place amidst the world of the ignorant man a.k.a. ‘THE LOSER’.

 

 

 

 

World of Mixology – Not SBs Cup of Tea

Thankfully turning out to ‘NOT‘ be my cup of tea became an infinite fine and blessing in disguise.

A downright shame to disregard innermost ‘gut’ feelings and signs versus placing emphasis on perception of good traits taught me quite a valuable lesson.

Above is fair warning for those who choose dating online. Similar to tea there are thousands of varieties in the sea.

The aftermath of the bad penny, the disreputable person, is similar to the recurrence of any unwanted event.

Whenever angry with another, tis often best to hold your tongue until you’ve had the opportunity to calm down and assess the situation.

Oops! Did you follow that rule of thumb? Or choose to type and send instead text ‘the end’.

Following a breakup it’s quite therapeutic to write or type feelings on paper followed by process of destruction via placing printouts one by one in the paper shredder.

Confetti anyone!

Feel better? Positive ‘yes’ and negative ‘no’ answers pop to mind followed by ‘reality’ mixture combo ‘not certain’ since even short term grief takes period of time.

It did help though? Yes, precisely correct!

Copping an attitude rarely gets me to reconsider a decision thus you’ll forever remain at a far away distance.

It might be fun to see how a new love interest story unfolds only your presence in my life has become old news.

Dishonesty is far from my cup of tea. She may think she won only a storm in a teacup is no real prize catch.

It’s laughable at best to see the happiness loving posts she sends while your profile stating ‘online today’ shows up on my contact list on dating sites.

Me, I have great confidence in my own savoir faire. Oui, il n’est pas mon genre!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Taste of Online Dating

O-range you a cutie
First pic caught my eye
Forgetfulness crop date
Automatic 'good-bye'
Be yourself task
All decent gal ask
Record pertinent information
Research absolute second vocation
Guidelines choose follow why
Member profile contents outright lies
Access gym daily laughable pic admire
Carrying around spare tire need update attire
Phase two phone conversation - listen heard
Ton red flags amidst herd
Say what you mean, mean what you say
Face-to-face meet no misrepresentations explain away
Window shopping online lonely man's favorite pastime
Discovery total waste intellectual's precious time
Search partner share simple joys last chapter life
Limited potentials combo continuance strife
Self-talk hopeful maybe gonna truly love again
Life's lesson - players game possible learn
Overall process bittersweet
Lacks success story less honesty match lucky meet.